Can introverts & extroverts be friends? Or they’ll struggle!


I have been married to an extrovert since 30 August 2006. But we met a couple of years before that. I couldn’t say that everything was smooth and effortless from day one.

Some individuals come into our lives for a certain period of time and leave for one reason or another. True, long-lasting friendships take time to build, but once established, it becomes unshakable.
Introverts and extroverts can be excellent friends and may even complete each other in certain circumstances.

Let me walk you through a few procedures, and varieties of relations between introverted and extroverted individuals at school, at work, or in romance.

a photo of Araz Tavitian on the left with her husband Garo Kotchounian on the right
An image of my wife Araz and me on our way back home from a fun day at the mountains.

Should introverts be friends with extroverts at school?

One of the critical questions to ask is, “How do you make friends?”
There are a few different ways you can go about it.
Some people find it easier to make friends in specific environments, such as at school, there are already other your age students in your classroom with whom you can talk and become friends.

Other people choose to go on social media and create a new social profile to meet new people.
Some people are timid and have trouble making friends, but some don’t care about what other people think of them and would rather spend their time doing something else instead of trying to make friends.

People who make friends at school are likely to eat, study, and hang out together. In turn, these friendships provide students with social support and a sense of belonging.

One of the main benefits of making friends at school is the social support they provide. They help you feel less lonely and less isolated. These friendships can also help you get through difficult times in your life.
Friends at school help students cope with the stress of high school and the pressure of being different. The friendships that students form in high school can benefit them later in life.

Making friends at school can also help students build social skills and become more outgoing. They can then engage in things outside school, such as sports or volunteering.

Social support is a resource that provides comfort and reduces extra stress and anxiety. Social support has been considered beneficial for students’ cognitive outcomes.

Can introverts agree with extroverts at work?

Being diverse is a natural part of who we are. Some people are extroverted, and some are introverted. The key to getting along well with others, whether introverts or extroverts, is to understand their differences and what makes them unique.

Here are seven tips that can help you get along well with everyone at work, including your boss and colleague:

  • 1) Remember that everyone has unique personality traits, likes, and dislikes. It’s important to remember that people are not all the same.
  • 2) Understand what makes an introvert and an extrovert tick before you try to interact with them. A person defined as an introvert is someone who loves being alone, while an extrovert loves being around other people.
  • 3) Don’t force introverts to talk when they don’t want to.
  • 4) Remember that everyone has personal space, be kind and try not to crowd them.
  • 5) It’s ok if you have a quiet coworker. Make sure you know why they’re acting that way and show them some respect for it.
  • 6) Always be respectful with people with a different personality than you. I say, “We are the same in our differences,” so treat everyone how they like to be treated.
  • 7) Be aware of your energy levels and their energy levels when interacting with someone else. You don’t want to overwhelm someone or make them uncomfortable by being too energetic.

Can an introvert fall in love with an extrovert?

Introverts tend to be more selective about the friendships they make than their extroverted counterparts. Still, their relationships are typically deeper because of their ability to listen well and put others at ease. Conversely, extroverts tend to be more outgoing, with a broader range of friends, but they may struggle to maintain these relationships because they tend not to listen or think before speaking.

Introverts and extroverts are different. They have particular needs, additional personality traits, and various communication styles. But they can become lovers!

These are some essential factors to consider when dating an introvert. Introverts want to feel in control of the relationship and will take time to get comfortable with new people. They’re more likely to co-create, which means they’ll talk about how they want their relationship and date.

They’ll also take more time than extroverts for an extended time before getting physical. Taking time to get emotional doesn’t mean they’re not open to love or a relationship, but they need time to get comfortable and feel like they can trust you.

Don’t be discouraged if an introvert takes some time to show their love interest that they are interested in more than a casual fling! Introverts want to feel safe and secure in a relationship before going “all the way.”

Introverted people can be more cliquey than extroverts, so it’s important for an introvert to feel like they’re accepted. They will reject an overly chatty person as a negative energy source. A good attitude goes a long way towards getting your introvert love.

Can introverts and extroverts enjoy time together?

an introvert and extrovert having fun on the roof of volkswagen van

Introverts and extroverts have diverse choices when it comes to socializing. Introverts are more likely to enjoy time alone, while extroverts are more likely to enjoy time with their friends.

Introverts and extroverts often conflict with one another because they have different preferences when it comes to socializing. Introverts are usually more comfortable spending time alone.
Extroverts like spending time being around their friends, which can cause a lot of tension between the two types of personalities as they try to share the time that is important to them individually.

The best way for both introvert and extrovert couples is to try and understand one another’s preferences for socializing, as well as make compromises on how much time each spends with others.

Making friends is always a challenge, but there are some things that you should be aware of, especially when meeting new potential friends.

If you’re looking to enjoy your time with an introverted friend, it’s crucial to have a lot of things in common.
For example, if you love hiking and your friend loves yoga, there’s not much room for conversation.

When looking for friends, it can also be helpful to find someone who shares your interests and lifestyle.
If you enjoy going out on the weekends and your friend enjoys staying in with Netflix and wine, it might not be the best idea to become friends.

Regarding long-term relations at work or personal level, knowing the personality trait of a person is fundamental for us to learn how to spend time with them. Also, it is essential to enjoy our day by building relations with people who have at least the same standards as us.

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