In this world with billions of people living, it’s funny, but I believe in soulmates. I believe that there’s a person meant for you and me. It’s just that we aren’t aware of the signs the universe keeps throwing at us.
Soulmates shouldn’t be hard to find. In fact, they make their way to you without you even knowing. When you meet someone with whom you feel an instant connection, safety, and great support. In a genuine relationship where everything just falls perfectly in place, then lucky you, you might just have found your soulmate.
It’s a little crazy to talk about soulmates. This is because some say that it’s just an ideology that is impossible to happen.
But what if? What if there are soulmates just like how I believe there are?
To help you realize whether you’ve already found your soulmate, check out this list that I’ve come up with!
What You Will Learn on This Page
You understand each other in different facets of life.
A soulmate is someone you can have a deep connection with but understand you completely, from minor to big happenings in your life.
It doesn’t matter what situation you’re in. Your soulmate is always there for you, coming out of the blue. What does this mean for your relationship with them?
They’re the type of person that you can count on when things are good and when things aren’t so good.
They can see through the facade of what’s happening outside of the relationship and get right down to the core of what’s essential. And that is understanding each other and being there no matter what happens.
Sometimes, even if you don’t explain how and what you’re feeling, your soulmate will just hug you out of nowhere! That’s like magic! That’s the connection and understanding we are talking about!
You feel calm and safe when you’re with that person.
If you have that person who can make you feel calm, safe, and secure when you’re with them, think of that person because you might have just found your soulmate.
Your soulmate can make you feel like the world is a beautiful place, even if it’s not. They take your breath away with their smile and lift your spirits with their laughter.
They make you feel like anything is possible and that there is nothing more important than the two of you at this moment together.
Well, your soulmate is your best friend and your lover. They’re someone who will always have your back no matter what may come their way in life or no matter what kind of trouble they get themselves into! All rolled into one perfect package.
You’re at peace and can do everything with that person by your side.
Your relationship falls perfectly in place and at the right timing.
Believe it or not, there are forced and fake relationships.
It’s the kind of relationship that puts too much stress and pressure on you. And that’s not what we wanted.
When it comes to your soulmate, it’s the total opposite of a forced relationship. Everything between the two of you is just so natural and genuine.
The timing is always perfect, and no matter what comes to the both of you, you always find a way to keep going without putting too much pressure on each other.
You might have heard people dating for 15 years and separating. You’ll also listen to stories of couples who just met five months ago and got married instantly!
Well, that’s because their soul told them that they’ve found their match and that there’s no chance they’re getting away with each other anymore.
It isn’t about years. It’s about the connection you feel with each other, whether it’s sincere or not.
That person brings out the best in you.
Your soulmate just knows how to push you and inspire you.
They see your strength, help you see it, and use it to positively impact the world. But they won’t do it by being mean or condescending. They’ll do it by being loving and kind and supportive.
They’re present when you need them most, and they know when to step back and let you find your own way.
They love deeply, fiercely, and unconditionally but also know how to be flexible in their approach and support your choices even if they disagree with them.
That’s what makes a soulmate such an incredible person. Their ability to be both a rock for you when things are difficult and a partner who will help you grow into something new and exciting.
So when you have this type of person, don’t ever let go!
You’re not afraid to show yourself to that person.
The best thing about your soulmate is that you can be yourself with them.
You’re not hiding behind a mask or trying to be someone else to impress them. You can just be, and they accept it. And you know what? That’s what makes the relationship so great!
We all tend to get caught up in our heads. But we don’t have to think about anything when we’re with our soulmates.
We can just focus on being with each other and having fun together. It’s a freeing feeling like you don’t have to worry about anything else except enjoying yourself with this particular person who makes you feel like the most important person in the world.
When you connect with someone at a deeper level, there’s nothing more fulfilling than being able to say exactly how you feel. You don’t have to worry that you’ll upset them or make them uncomfortable by speaking your mind too much.
This kind of openness is what creates a deep bond between two people who genuinely love each other unconditionally, and that’s how relationships with soulmates work.
You share goals and meet them together.
Soulmates aren’t termed as soulmates for no reason. It means that you and your soulmate are a perfect match in this world full of billions of people.
You’re compatible in every way you could think of, emotionally, mentally, and physically. You’re both on the same page about what you want out of life, and you see each other as partners in crime who can conquer anything together.
You understand one another’s unique needs and desires in the future, and you love how that makes you feel.
When talking about your relationship with your soulmate, there is no such thing as “too much.” You will never run out of things to say to each other or activities to do together in the future because neither of you will ever be bored.
Your connection is so strong that when one of you wants something or needs something, the other person feels it immediately and is always ready with a solution.
You respect each other.
Healthy relationships are when partners respect each other and their interests, goals, and beliefs.
A soulmate makes you feel like the most important person in their life, not just because they say it, but because they show it through how much they care about your well-being and support you.
A soulmate respects your boundaries and gives you the space to be yourself without trying to change yourself.
They don’t push their ideas on you or make you feel bad for disagreeing with them. In fact, they’re more likely to listen than speak in a conversation because they truly want to understand where you’re coming from.
A soulmate is someone who makes decisions based on what’s best for the relationship, not just themselves.
They know that sometimes things need to be sacrificed for the greater good of the relationship, and they’re willing to do that without complaint or resentment.
You’re contented with that person.
If you’ve ever been in a relationship and thought, “This is it,” you might be able to thank your soulmate for that feeling.
According to science, when two people are connected on a deeper level, they can feel more contented in the relationship than if they were with someone else.
This makes sense. After all, if your partner is the right one for you and makes you feel happy, then why would you want to leave?
This isn’t just about being with someone who makes you feel good. It’s also about being with someone who understands your needs and wants so well that they’re able to meet them without effort or even saying a word.
When we connect with our soulmates, we feel at ease and content because we know that this person understands us deeply. Even when words aren’t spoken, mutual understanding and respect are still.
You feel happy and loved in their company.
Lastly, the person who can make you feel happy and loved is your soulmate.
But don’t confuse yourself. Some people can make you happy today but not tomorrow. Some people can make you feel loved today but will ignore you tomorrow.
Your soulmate is consistent. Your soulmate is the one and the only person you want to end the day with, the person you treat as your rest after a very long day at work.
Your soulmate is your happy pill whenever and wherever you go.
Note that your soulmate isn’t just about being romantic and intimate. Your soulmate should also give you the feeling of fulfillment in life, saying, “At last, I’ve found the person whom I want to connect and treasure my life with.”
Why are soulmates not just about romantic relationships?
The idea of soulmates is based on someone who understands your soul more profound than others and resonates with who you are.
It’s not always about intimacy or a man-woman relationship. Likewise, this argument could also be based on what you believe.
Some people believe that we only got one soulmate in this world. But some also believe that in every phase of your life, you’ll meet different soulmates who’ll teach you important things in life.
This makes even soulmates exciting and interesting to talk about!
With many people we encounter, no one can quickly tell what their role is in our lives. Some will come our way to teach us lessons we’re bound to learn. Meanwhile, some are just passing by.
But we can all agree that at some point in our lives, we met someone with whom we found a safe place to be. Sometimes, it would still be a coincidence that you and that person have the same birthday, the same favorite song, etc.
Although it’s fun to think of it like that, soulmates are more than that. Soulmates are more than numbers and coincidences. Soulmates are people with whom you can share the same positive connection more than anyone else.
They’re the people who can uplift your soul and understand you on a different level than ordinary people do. They could be a friend, the lady in the shop, or your neighbor in your new place.
They are not everywhere, so never let go and treasure your relationship when you find them!
So, have you found your soulmate?
All the things or signs I mentioned above are relative.
Some can be true to others, while some are not. But for me, after meeting lots of people, including my partner today, I believe those signs can tell whether you’ve found your soulmate or not.
You don’t have to rush looking for your soulmate. As I’ve said earlier, soulmates always come in the right and perfect timing, the moment when you least expect it.
But if you think you have already met your soulmate, well, first of all, congratulations! You found a person who gets you, and that’s a big deal.
The next step is to take your time and appreciate every moment you share. Not everybody has the chance to find someone who can know you soul-deep like your match.
However, don’t expect everything to be perfect when you find your soulmate. Just like a normal relationship, there will be uphill battles. But what’s great about having a soulmate is that you’re always ready and motivated to take on anything the world throws.
The essence of having a soulmate is having someone by your side whom your soul can always count on.
Whether you have these signals of mine or not, it’s always up to you. It’s the feeling inside that counts in! I just gave you some of it so you can have an idea of the person you are with now.
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